God's plan

I always felt that God was teaching Gabe a lesson, that if he wanted a family bad enough, if he blamed him leaving me for Crystal as God cursing us, then he could have a family.  And when he did, he would realize he should have waited and invested in us because now that he had the family he always wanted, everything else was wrong - the woman was a bitch and a gold digger who cared nothing of him or her family, the 10 year old would never be "his kid", and he was unhappy.

But what if His plan was for them to be together?  Are they the happily ever after God wanted for him?

And what about me?